Simon Brown with his wife Angel and her family at their Christian wedding. This Bible study investigates who Jesus taught His followers to pray to and worship, who Jesus Himself prayed to, prayer to the Father through Jesus Christ, and whether Christian traditions concerning prayer agree with Jesus’ own teachings.
WHO DID JESUS SAY WE SHOULD PRAY TO AND WORSHIP?
What Did Jesus Himself Teach About Prayer, Worship, the Father, and His Own Role as the Son of God?
A Personal Testimony and Biblical Investigation
Research by Simon Brown
There are some Bible studies that begin simply because we come across a difficult verse. But this study is different.
This article grew out of something deeply personal in my own life—my previous marriage, my relationship with God during one of the most painful periods of my life, and eventually meeting Angel, who became my new wife three years later.
It also grew out of a question that I now believe every Christian should seriously consider:
WHO DID JESUS ACTUALLY TEACH US TO PRAY TO AND WORSHIP?
Not who does our church tell us to pray to.
Not what have we always done.
Not what does Catholicism, Trinitarianism, Modalism, or even my own understanding tell us.
But:
WHAT DID JESUS SAY?
MY PERSONAL JOURNEY
In 2023, I separated from my wife after discovering that she was having an affair with one of our lodgers.
Of course, this broke my heart.
During our marriage I had tried to teach her many of the teachings of Jesus, but she would not seriously study the Word of God for herself. I had often worried that without strong foundations in God, Jesus and the Bible, her faith might not be strong enough when serious temptation came.
Sadly, my marriage ended through adultery.
During this extremely difficult period, however, I personally felt God's love, guidance and support very strongly.
Eventually I obtained a court order preventing my former wife from returning to my home. Through everything that happened, I believed God was helping me through one of the most painful periods of my life.
And so I prayed.
I prayed that God would bring a Christian woman into my life who would join me in following Jesus Christ and the One True God.
And then I met a beautiful young Christian woman called Angel.
It almost seemed to me as though God had literally sent me an angel.
But there was something that immediately presented a challenge.
ANGEL WAS A DEDICATED CATHOLIC.
And this made me wonder:
Was there a reason God had brought a Catholic woman into my life?
Could I encourage Angel to open the Bible for herself and examine whether everything she had inherited through Catholic tradition actually agreed with the teachings of Jesus?
Could I also encourage her family to do the same?
I knew from personal experience how difficult changing one's religious beliefs can be, because I had previously been a Trinitarian myself.
Leaving deeply established religious doctrines behind can feel like trying to turn an enormous oil tanker around in the middle of the ocean.
People naturally tend to believe what they have been taught throughout their lives. But something being taught for hundreds of years—or believed by millions of people—does not automatically make it true.
The question must always be:
WHAT DOES THE WORD OF GOD ACTUALLY SAY?
ANGEL BEGAN QUESTIONING HER CATHOLIC FAITH
Over time, Angel began examining these things for herself.
I encouraged her not simply to believe me, but to read the Bible and test what she had been taught against Scripture.
Eventually Angel left the Catholic faith and came to share my belief that Jesus is literally the Son of the One True God, rather than God Himself.
Some members of her family also subsequently left Catholicism.
However, our journey certainly didn't end there.
I began noticing something very important.
Although their beliefs had changed, some of their religious habits and traditions had not completely changed with them.
They would still sing to Jesus, worship Jesus and direct prayers to Jesus.
This made me ask:
IF WE CHANGE OUR DOCTRINE BUT CONTINUE PRACTISING SOMETHING JESUS NEVER TAUGHT US TO DO, HAVE WE REALLY FOLLOWED HIS TEACHING ALL THE WAY?
That question is one of the main reasons I decided to write this study.
THE CHANGES I HAVE SEEN IN ANGEL'S LIFE
When I first met Angel and her family, they were living with considerable financial hardship.
I felt deeply sorry for them.
Since then, their circumstances have improved considerably. Angel herself has changed enormously, and even people around her have noticed the difference in her circumstances and the things she and her family can now enjoy that were previously beyond their means.
Naturally this has made me wonder about God's blessings.
Jesus said:
MATTHEW 6:33
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
I cannot prove that Angel's improved circumstances happened because she left Catholicism or rejected the Trinity.
Nor would it be right for me to conclude that relatives experiencing debt must therefore be under God's displeasure because they remain Trinitarians.
The Bible itself contains faithful servants of God who experienced poverty, suffering and hardship.
But what I can say is that I have personally seen enormous changes in Angel's life, and these experiences have strengthened my desire that both she and her family continue seeking God and testing everything against His Word.
Material prosperity itself cannot determine whether a doctrine is true.
SCRIPTURE MUST DETERMINE THAT.
And that brings me to the question at the heart of this study.
WHO DO DIFFERENT CHRISTIAN FAITHS PRAY TO?
Before criticising anybody's beliefs, we should represent them accurately.
CATHOLICISM
Catholics may pray to the Father, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Catholic worship also contains the traditional pattern of approaching the Father through Christ.
Catholics additionally ask Mary and the saints for their intercession, although Catholic teaching distinguishes this from the worship it says belongs to God alone.
ORTHODOX TRINITARIAN CHRISTIANITY
Trinitarians believe that:
The Father is God.
The Son is God.
The Holy Spirit is God.
Yet they maintain that there is only one God, not three Gods.
Therefore Trinitarian Christians generally regard prayer addressed to the Father, Jesus, or the Holy Spirit as legitimate, although many Trinitarian traditions particularly emphasize prayer to the Father, through the Son, in the Holy Spirit.
ONENESS / MODALIST CHRISTIANITY
Oneness believers reject the orthodox Trinity of three distinct divine persons.
They strongly emphasize Jesus as the revelation of the one God, and prayer directly to Jesus consequently occupies an important place in their faith.
These doctrines are different, and we should not confuse them.
Trinitarians do not believe Jesus is the Father.
Oneness believers may identify Jesus with the Father in a way orthodox Trinitarians explicitly reject.
But this leaves us with the question that matters most:
WHICH OF THESE BELIEFS AGREES WITH JESUS?
QUICK FACT 1 — JESUS SAID: PRAY TO YOUR FATHER
Jesus gave remarkably straightforward instructions:
MATTHEW 6:6
“Pray to your Father…”
Notice whom Jesus identifies as the recipient of prayer:
YOUR FATHER.
Jesus then proceeds to teach His followers how to pray.
QUICK FACT 2 — JESUS BEGAN HIS MODEL PRAYER: “OUR FATHER”
Quick Fact 2 Bible image showing Jesus teaching His disciples how to pray, beginning His model prayer with “Our Father” in Matthew 6:9.
MATTHEW 6:9
Jesus said:
“Therefore pray like this: ‘Our Father in the heavens…’”
Jesus did not begin:
“Our Jesus…”
He did not say:
“Our Holy Spirit…”
Nor did He say:
“Our Father, Son and Holy Spirit…”
He said:
“OUR FATHER.”
If Jesus was deliberately teaching His disciples how to pray, shouldn't His followers take that instruction extremely seriously?
QUICK FACT 3 — JESUS TAUGHT HIS DISCIPLES TO ASK THE FATHER IN HIS NAME
Detailed Quick Facts Bible research image examining Jesus’ instruction to ask the Father in His name. John 16:23 directs prayer to the Father in Jesus’ name, Ephesians 2:18 describes access to the Father through Christ, and 1 Timothy 2:5 distinguishes the one God from the mediator, Jesus Christ.
Jesus said:
JOHN 16:23
“Whatever you may ask the Father in My name, He will give you.”
Look carefully at the relationship:
ASK THE FATHER → IN JESUS' NAME
Jesus presents Himself as central to our approach to the Father.
This agrees beautifully with:
EPHESIANS 2:18
“For through Him we both have access to the Father by one Spirit.”
Again:
THROUGH CHRIST → TO THE FATHER
And Paul writes:
1 TIMOTHY 2:5
“For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.”
Again Scripture distinguishes:
ONE GOD
from
THE MEDIATOR — JESUS CHRIST.
QUICK FACT 4 — WHO DID JESUS HIMSELF PRAY TO?
Jesus didn't merely tell other people how to pray.
He showed them.
Matthew 11:25
Jesus addressed the Father.
Matthew 26:39
Jesus prayed:
“My Father…”
Luke 22:42
Jesus prayed:
“Father…”
John 11:41
Jesus said:
“Father, I thank You…”
John 17:1
Jesus lifted His eyes toward heaven and said:
“Father…”
Luke 23:46
At His death Jesus cried:
“Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit.”
The pattern is difficult to miss:
JESUS PRAYED TO HIS FATHER.
So shouldn't people who claim to follow Jesus seriously consider following His example of prayer?
QUICK FACT 5 — JESUS SAID TRUE WORSHIPPERS WOULD WORSHIP THE FATHER
Jesus told the Samaritan woman:
JOHN 4:23
“The true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth…”
Notice again:
THE FATHER.
Jesus continues in verse 24 that God is spirit and those worshipping Him must worship in spirit and truth.
This raises a serious question:
IF JESUS SAID TRUE WORSHIPPERS WOULD WORSHIP THE FATHER, WHY SHOULDN'T WE FOLLOW HIS INSTRUCTION?
QUICK FACT 6 — JESUS CALLED THE FATHER “THE ONLY TRUE GOD”
In one of Jesus' greatest recorded prayers, He said:
JOHN 17:1–3
Jesus prayed to His Father, and then said:
“…that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You sent.”
There are two identities in the statement:
“YOU” — THE FATHER, THE ONLY TRUE GOD
and
“JESUS CHRIST” — THE ONE WHOM THE FATHER SENT
For me, this is extremely important evidence concerning the identity of God.
QUICK FACT 7 — EVEN THE RISEN JESUS HAS A GOD
After His resurrection Jesus told Mary:
JOHN 20:17
“I am ascending to My Father and your Father, and My God and your God.”
Jesus didn't merely have a Father before His death.
The risen Jesus still said:
“MY GOD.”
And whom was He talking about?
THE FATHER.
QUICK FACT 8 — THIS CHALLENGES TWO DIFFERENT BELIEFS ABOUT JESUS
This evidence needs to be applied carefully because I am addressing two different doctrines.
MODALISM / ONENESS
If Jesus literally is the Father, why is Jesus praying to the Father, speaking to the Father, being sent by the Father and calling the Father “My God”?
TRINITARIANISM
Trinitarians already agree that Jesus is not the Father.
Their claim is different: the Father and Son are distinct persons who nevertheless fully share the one divine being.
Therefore my question for Trinitarians is:
WHY DOES SCRIPTURE REPEATEDLY IDENTIFY THE FATHER AS JESUS' GOD WHILE PRESENTING JESUS AS GOD'S SON, MESSIAH, SENT ONE AND MEDIATOR?
Prayer is not my only evidence for this conclusion.
It is one part of the much larger cumulative biblical case that has led me to believe the Father is the One True God and Jesus is His Son.
QUICK FACT 9 — WHERE DID JESUS TEACH US TO PRAY TO THE HOLY SPIRIT?
Quick Facts Bible research image examining whether Jesus or the apostles explicitly taught Christians to pray directly to the Holy Spirit. Romans 8:26 describes the Spirit helping believers in their weakness and interceding in connection with prayer, raising the question of where Scripture provides an explicit command or model prayer addressed to the Holy Spirit.
This is another question I believe Trinitarian Christians should seriously consider.
If the Holy Spirit is a third distinct, coequal divine person and Christians are supposed to address prayers directly to Him:
WHERE DID JESUS TEACH THIS?
Where did Jesus say:
“PRAY TO THE HOLY SPIRIT”?
Where do the apostles provide a model prayer beginning:
“HOLY SPIRIT…”?
Romans 8:26 describes the Spirit as helping believers in their weakness and interceding in connection with prayer.
But saying the Spirit helps us pray is not the same statement as commanding us to pray to the Spirit.
The absence of an explicit command by itself does not prove that addressing the Holy Spirit is forbidden.
But it certainly gives us a question worth investigating:
IF DIRECT PRAYER TO THE HOLY SPIRIT IS SUPPOSED TO BE A NORMAL PART OF CHRISTIAN WORSHIP, WHY IS AN EXPLICIT TEACHING OR EXAMPLE SO DIFFICULT TO FIND?
QUICK FACT 10 — BUT DID ANYONE DIRECTLY ADDRESS JESUS?
Yes.
And we must not hide this.
ACTS 7:59
As Stephen was being stoned:
“Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.”
Stephen was directly addressing Jesus.
But look at the extraordinary circumstances.
Immediately beforehand Stephen sees:
ACTS 7:55–56
God's glory and Jesus standing at God's right hand.
Stephen therefore sees Jesus and directly addresses the risen Jesus whom he is seeing.
This passage should not be dismissed.
But neither should we turn Stephen's extraordinary experience into words Jesus never spoke.
Acts 7:59 does not record Jesus saying:
“FROM NOW ON, PRAY TO ME INSTEAD OF THE FATHER.”
Nor does it say:
“THIS IS NOW THE MODEL FOR CHRISTIAN PRAYER.”
The question therefore remains:
SHOULD ONE EXAMPLE OF DIRECTLY ADDRESSING THE RISEN JESUS DURING AN EXTRAORDINARY VISION REPLACE JESUS' EXPLICIT INSTRUCTIONS: “PRAY TO YOUR FATHER”?
I do not believe it should.
Revelation 22:20 similarly contains the appeal:
“Come, Lord Jesus.”
So I am not claiming that nobody in Scripture ever directly addressed Jesus.
I am asking something much more specific:
WHO DID JESUS TEACH HIS DISCIPLES TO PRAY TO?
And His answer was:
THE FATHER.
QUICK FACT 11 — JESUS SAID LOVING HIM MEANS KEEPING HIS COMMANDMENTS
This takes us to something even more important than theological argument.
Jesus said:
JOHN 14:15
“If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.”
And:
JOHN 8:31
“If you remain in My word, you are truly My disciples.”
And 2 John 1:6 says that love involves walking according to His commandments.
Therefore this isn't merely about winning an argument concerning the Trinity.
IT IS ABOUT OBEDIENCE TO JESUS.
If Jesus teaches:
“Pray to your Father,”
shouldn't those who claim to follow Him want to do exactly that?
QUICK FACT 12 — COULD THIS EVEN AFFECT OUR PRAYERS?
Quick Facts Bible research image examining whether following Jesus' instructions about prayer could affect our prayers. John 15:7 connects asking with abiding in Christ and His words, while John 15:10 connects remaining in His love with keeping His commandments. The study asks whether departing from Jesus' teaching to pray to the Father could contribute to prayers not being answered, while recognizing that Scripture gives several reasons for unanswered prayer.
This brings me to a question I believe Christians should take very seriously.
I am not saying that every unanswered prayer happens because somebody prayed to Jesus rather than the Father.
Scripture gives several reasons prayer may not receive the answer we desire.
But Jesus Himself connects prayer with remaining in His teaching.
JOHN 15:7
“If you abide in Me and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish…”
Jesus also says:
JOHN 15:10
that keeping His commandments is connected with remaining in His love.
So we should at least be prepared to ask:
IF WE ARE NOT FOLLOWING JESUS' INSTRUCTIONS ABOUT PRAYER, COULD THIS CONTRIBUTE TO OUR PRAYERS NOT BEING ANSWERED?
If Jesus taught us to pray to the Father, why would we knowingly substitute a different pattern?
If Jesus tells us to remain in His words, shouldn't His words about prayer remain in us too?
QUICK FACT 13 — THE BIBLE GIVES OTHER REASONS PRAYER CAN BE HINDERED
We should not oversimplify unanswered prayer.
James 4:3
People can ask with wrong motives.
1 John 5:14
Confidence in prayer is connected with asking according to God's will.
Mark 11:25
Jesus connects prayer with forgiveness.
1 Peter 3:7
Our conduct toward others can affect our prayers.
So Scripture clearly teaches something important:
GOD DOES CARE HOW WE LIVE AND HOW WE PRAY.
Therefore asking whether we are following Jesus' instructions concerning prayer is completely legitimate.
QUICK FACT 14 — DOES JESUS RECEIVING “WORSHIP” CHANGE EVERYTHING?
The New Testament does describe people bowing before Jesus, and the Greek word proskyneÅ is sometimes translated “worship.”
This deserves careful investigation because proskyneÅ can describe worship of God, but it can also describe bowing, homage or reverence toward someone who is not God.
Therefore the mere appearance of the English word “worship” does not by itself settle Jesus' identity.
I have examined this separately in:
QUICK FACTS: WAS JESUS WORSHIPPED — AND IF SO, DOES THAT PROVE JESUS IS GOD?
QUICK FACT 15 — HONOURING JESUS IS NOT OPTIONAL
None of this means Christians should dishonour Jesus.
Quite the opposite.
Jesus is God's Son.
He is the Messiah.
He is our Lord.
He is God's appointed King.
He is our mediator.
God raised Him from the dead and exalted Him.
Jesus says in John 5:23 that the Son is to be honoured.
And Philippians 2:9–11 describes God highly exalting Jesus so that every knee should bow and every tongue confess Jesus Christ as Lord:
“TO THE GLORY OF GOD THE FATHER.”
Therefore my argument is not:
DISHONOUR JESUS.
My argument is:
HONOUR JESUS BY LISTENING TO JESUS.
If Jesus says:
“PRAY TO YOUR FATHER”
then surely one of the greatest ways of honouring Jesus is to believe Him and obey Him.
SO WHO SHOULD CHRISTIANS PRAY TO?
After examining Jesus' teaching, His example and the wider New Testament pattern, this is the conclusion I have personally reached:
PRAY TO THE FATHER
THROUGH JESUS CHRIST
IN JESUS' NAME
Jesus is not an obstacle between us and God.
He is the one through whom we have access to the Father.
That is why Jesus said:
JOHN 14:6
“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”
Notice where the Way leads:
TO THE FATHER.
MY MESSAGE TO ANGEL, HER FAMILY — AND EVERY CHRISTIAN READING THIS
This study is particularly personal to me because of Angel and her family.
I don't want Angel to believe something merely because I tell her.
I don't want her family exchanging one human tradition for another.
And I don't want anybody reading this article to believe something simply because Simon Brown wrote it.
Open your Bible.
Read Jesus' words for yourself.
Ask:
WHO DID JESUS PRAY TO?
WHO DID JESUS TEACH ME TO PRAY TO?
WHO DID JESUS SAY TRUE WORSHIPPERS WOULD WORSHIP?
WHO DID JESUS CALL “THE ONLY TRUE GOD”?
WHO DID JESUS CALL “MY GOD”?
WHY DID JESUS TEACH US TO ASK THE FATHER IN HIS NAME?
WHERE DID JESUS TEACH US TO PRAY TO THE HOLY SPIRIT?
AND AM I FOLLOWING JESUS' WORDS — OR SIMPLY FOLLOWING WHAT MY RELIGION TAUGHT ME?
These are questions I believe every Catholic, Trinitarian, Oneness believer—and indeed every Christian, including myself—should be willing to ask.
Because Jesus said:
“IF YOU REMAIN IN MY WORD, YOU ARE TRULY MY DISCIPLES.”
— John 8:31
And:
“IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU WILL KEEP MY COMMANDMENTS.”
— John 14:15
So perhaps the most important question isn't:
WHAT HAS MY CHURCH ALWAYS TAUGHT ME?
It is:
AM I ACTUALLY DOING WHAT JESUS TAUGHT ME?
Research by Simon Brown
wwwrealdiscoveriesorg-simon.blogspot.com
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